To be fair, I don't find most of the guys I listed charming; okay s2-Spike and Logan *can* be sometimes, and Barney at least knows how to act the part, and Jess is mostly just annoying. So if Chuck doesn't even have the little bit of charm/forgivable graces that I sometimes can extend to the others then yeah, we've got a bad one.

With an annoying whisper voice apparently.